I am a very, very lucky man.  I knew that at the moment after the wreck, I looked around and I could still see a world that I knew and not some weird 5th dimensional plane of existence LOL.  Life gives us challenges to hone up to, they make us stronger over the long run, and this was one for me.  I'm glad that there are folks like you to turn to for help, especially when I'm no where in the know of what's fair as you.